By Alec Meer on November 24th, 2009 at 12:49 am.
At what? At a game about beating a woman. As in savagely, brutally, unforgivably, not as in “at badminton” or “in a round of cribbage.” It’s horrible, despite being nothing more than crudely looped video footage overlaid with a strangely undersized floating hand. As it spools hideously onwards, a voice demands you hit her harder, even as blood and bruises blossom gruesomely across her face. Horrible.

Shockingly, it turns out to be a Danish public service announcement about domestic abuse, designed to deter gentlemen who think of themselves as ‘gangsta’ from treating their girlfriends and wives with horrific, violent contempt.
Apparently calling you a “100% idiot” after making you spend five minutes beating a woman to the floor is enough to justify the game and to affect some kind of social change. Perhaps their insane approach to philanthropy sounded arch and affecting on paper, but all the good intentions in the world don’t change the fact that it’s still a game about repeatedly punching a woman in the face, and only that.
Since causing an understandable storm of controversy last week, the game’s now blocking anyone from outside Denmark (it was formerly available here, if you want to futilely click on something), but one chap managed to record a video, erm, walkthrough of the awful thing before it closed its door post-horse-bolting. Sadly he’s not translated the Danish dialogue, but instead overlaid some none-too-subtle captions of his own. The bewildering horror of the piece is very much intact, however.
Perhaps its message might have worked if it presented any possible interaction beyond violence – an opportunity to do the right thing, to learn, to refuse the shouting prompts to attack the poor woman. Instead, you’re essentially forced to hit her, depending on where you stand as to inaction being action. In a lot of ways, it’s doing what That Modern Warfare 2 level did – the same out-of-context shock tactics, the same confused belief that a message is stronger when couched in enforced moral transgression. November, you’ve done us no good.


24/11/2009 at 00:56 LewieP says:
In a similar fashion to how I feel about No Russian, I really think that including scenes and acts like this in a videogame is not a fundamentally bad idea, I just think that it should be done far more tactfully and far more skillfully, with much more thought given to context.
Just plonking the player down with some civilians to shoot, or with a woman to click on, doesn’t really say anything.
24/11/2009 at 00:56 Psychopomp says:
Who…
What…
24/11/2009 at 01:30 Bhazor says:
Who: Torgo
What: He finally gets his wife.
24/11/2009 at 07:41 DJ Phantoon says:
oh my god Bhazor I love you forever for that one.
“The Master likes you…!”
24/11/2009 at 08:31 Nick says:
Torgo’s Pizza!
24/11/2009 at 08:39 Lars Westergren says:
Torgo’s KNEES!
In the MST3K book they have the trivia that apparently they are supposed to be goat legs (so he is a satyre for some mindboggling reason).
24/11/2009 at 12:46 mark says:
awesome derailling. +1 for everything Torgo.
24/11/2009 at 13:24 Bhazor says:
Sadly there were no clips of Torgo’s touching her up scene but it’s the first thing I thought when I saw the video with the angry woman just standing there whilst a clawed hand jerkily reaches for her. The closest I got was this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8aJRj2NuGas which is rubbish.
If you think the MST3K version was bad, watch the uncut version. Know the driving montage at the start? Lasts more than 20 minutes.
24/11/2009 at 00:57 Mattaustin66 says:
Makes you think..
24/11/2009 at 00:58 egg says:
Hmm, I just got this message:
Dear non-danish visitor,
Due to an extremely high amount of traffic “Hit the Bitch” has been limited to only allow users from Denmark.
However, domestic violence is a global problem, so please support the fight against it in your local country.
Thanks for your interest.
Kind regards
Children exposed to Violence at Home
Information in english about the organisation
24/11/2009 at 00:59 egg says:
Dang, I think I just made a fool out of myself. Sorry, me.
24/11/2009 at 01:02 john t says:
Denmark is on a roll.
24/11/2009 at 03:28 Baris says:
Dear god, that was depressing to watch. I feel like giving the poor woman a hug.
24/11/2009 at 08:31 Norskov says:
A rather bad attempt at viral marketing.
24/11/2009 at 08:49 neolith says:
Baris, that’s actually just a pretty bad ad to get people to visit Denmark: http://nyhederne.tv2.dk/article.php/id-25029383.html
24/11/2009 at 10:53 Baris says:
Oh, wow, I guess my post-3am brain didn’t pick up on it. Gah, I feel stupid now.
24/11/2009 at 01:03 jsutcliffe says:
This is abhorrent. However, I appreciate that the intention behind it is a good one. As with many things like this (e.g. “No Russian”), I wonder how could it be made better. One thought:
The user uploads a picture of himself (or herself), then progress through the game as it is now. At the end, all the harm inflicted is displayed on the photograph the user uploaded. Still not a great idea, but a less terrible one at least.
24/11/2009 at 01:14 Arsewisely says:
It’s justifiable if the woman herself is ‘domestic violence’ and the game is encouraging you to fight it, in some kind of spiralling, meta-symbolic narrative that make my head hurt.
24/11/2009 at 01:16 Clovis says:
But if the slapper is a woman, the game is suddenly fun.
Here’s the link to the actual woman on woman slapping game.
24/11/2009 at 01:23 Mattaustin66 says:
I guess if you’re going to play about with morality in relation to context, for all we know the girl could have shot someone dear to you..
24/11/2009 at 01:34 Bhazor says:
That wasn’t domestic abuse that was essentially a beat em up. It’s like saying Street Fighter is domestic abuse if one character was playing as Cammie.
24/11/2009 at 03:57 Persus-9 says:
Yeah, those women are evil snobs who were bullying recently widowed lady because she’s commoner (which is pretty damn evil). They’re just getting what’s coming to them in a fair fight. Having said that I didn’t find it fun.
24/11/2009 at 13:29 Dominic White says:
Rose & Camellia is a piece of inspired madness. I mean, it’s Punch Out, but with a plot, and with an all-courtly-ladies cast.
And an amazingly brilliant final boss, too.
24/11/2009 at 01:27 Ricc says:
I don’t know what to make of this…
I’ll be honest, I had to laugh at the youtube video, because of the stupid captions and because it wasn’t convincingly acted at all (Which I am kind of glad for…), in my opinion.
It is bewildering, yes, very much.
24/11/2009 at 01:36 M.P. says:
I agree with LewieP – making a player do something horrible is probably a really powerful way to communicate how horrrible it really is. It’s just that this is done really badly. I’m guessing it was a basic free little flash game on their website or something, right?
24/11/2009 at 01:39 xenothaulus says:
I hit it.
24/11/2009 at 01:41 itsamemario says:
No Russian mission isnt that bad. it reflect reality. In WAR you dont have a BOUQUET of FLOWER and shoot fragrant rose lazer that heal people with joy and happy music. THEY SHOOT AT YOU IN THE FACE and you die.
Continue to live comfortable on your couch.
24/11/2009 at 01:44 jsutcliffe says:
Shit, man. I’m going to stay away from civilians next time I’m in a warzone.
24/11/2009 at 02:23 Paul S. says:
This is stupid. Taking the moral high ground to defend an entire level dedicated to shooting defenceless civilians in the face in an otherwise popcorn blockbuster is a slightly ridiculous stance, chef.
24/11/2009 at 07:04 MadMatty says:
Yes indeed. As for the tart-smacking im from Denmark and i kindof get it. Might get someone thinking, tho probably not. Whats the outrage?
I got one woman friend who keep getting smacked by her boyfriends, but she keeps sticking to them anyway- get sum self-respect .
24/11/2009 at 09:04 Rinox says:
Yes, because ‘war’ involves 4 man walking into the airport with AK’s and mowing down stupefied civilians.
No Russian is about a terrorist attack, not a war (yet). While the result may be the same, in one the goal is to kill defenseless civilians. In the other it’s a nasty and often unavoidable byproduct, but rarely the point of a modern war.
24/11/2009 at 01:44 HexagonalBolts says:
It’s just like the Modern Warfare 2 article on RPS the other day: An excellent opportunity to convey a powerful message, executed appallingly.
24/11/2009 at 02:16 DerangedStoat says:
haha for a moment there I thought you were dissing an excellent article!
24/11/2009 at 02:11 ordteapot says:
It seems to me that if you find the game abhorrent from the get-go, you’re not the “target audience.” Rather, it targets those with the mentality that this is somehow an A-OK form of entertainment, and, by the end, hopefully jars into their skull just how terrible of a person they are. If they’re still enjoying themselves at that point, they’re probably a lost cause for this sort of correction.
I’m still not linking my mum to it.
24/11/2009 at 02:14 Poopscrubber says:
I can try translatin’ some o’ dis Danish speak!
First three lines from the girl:
I had the best night, what about you?
Yes, of course I danced with someone.
You know what, you don’t need to decide who I dance with!
Then, the narrator guy in a voice that is very “Danish gangsta”
What’s wrong with you? You’ve lost control of your bitch!
A couple of flats (slaps) should help
At this point the romance begins!
Girl’s lines from here (some repeat – it’s probably a random looperino)
Why would I fuck your best friend? He’s just as ugly as you.
You’re so petty it’s crazy.
Why would I fuck your best friend? He’s just as ugly as you.
You always – (interrupted by user’s slap)
Are you stupid or what? A no is a no!
You little insane man! Fuck you!
You little boy, you think you’re the only one who can fight?
You feel strong – (interrupted by user’s slap)
Is that all you’ve got?
If I really love you, then I’ll do what? No, if you really love me you won’t force me to do things I don’t feel like doing.
100% Gangsta
Narrator kicks in:
Idiot! It’s not gangsta do hit bitches. You already lost the game the first time you laid hands on her. There is no reason to hit. None! Seek help before it’s too late.
Girl crying.
In Denmark, two girls in each class from 9th til 12th grade live in a violent relationship. If you’re one of those that hits, or a girl that is being hit – seek help.
Done! It’s not a great translation, but you get the gist of it.
24/11/2009 at 03:36 Persus-9 says:
Thanks, pretty much what I’d have guessed but it was good to read the details.
24/11/2009 at 02:20 Spod says:
To quote John Walker from the BBC article about MW2
“For all those who mowed down citizens in Modern Warfare 2′s controversial airport level, I have the sneaking suspicion that not a great deal of them think this is lawful, nor appropriate, behaviour.”
I feel exactly the same about this flash animation. I abhor violence, particularly to vulnerable people but this flash animation did absolutely nothing for/to me. I was quite happy to slap the crap out of her and felt it was quite shoddy programming that I wasn’t able to give her a backhand – plus, the slaps should have been rated ala : http://www.addictinggames.com/monkey.html.
24/11/2009 at 02:43 Oak says:
I don’t think that’s quite what he meant.
24/11/2009 at 03:38 Spod says:
The point I was making, and on reflection the quote didn’t back it up as much as I’d hoped, is that it’s quite easy to discern reality from notsomuchreality. In that respect, this little “game” didn’t affect me in the slightest. I can understand people being more affected by it than I was, but I don’t understand people being shocked/offended.
It is crap at what it sets out to do though, I can’t imagine it’ll be in any way effective.
24/11/2009 at 07:48 DJ Phantoon says:
Spod, you don’t find your intelligence offended with such bad things?
The game basically encourages you to hit a woman. On the plus side, maybe some of these jerkasses will play this game instead of actually hitting someone.
Probably not.
24/11/2009 at 14:16 Spod says:
Absolutely not, after all they’re the ones who made this crappy thing so I’m not left questioning *my* intelligence :).
24/11/2009 at 02:21 Spod says:
Argh, that should have been a after behaviour.”
24/11/2009 at 02:22 Spod says:
Grr – that should have been, “Argh that should have been a [close italics] after behaviour.”
Edit required %L!
24/11/2009 at 02:35 jsutcliffe says:
If you’ve registered, and are logged in to the forum, you can find this thread there and edit your comments. It’s long-winded, but it works. Usually.
24/11/2009 at 02:40 Spod says:
Oh. Well I look even more of a tit then, I’ll have to go do that at some point :).
This post is in response to jsutcliffe just in case I’ve ballsed it up somehow and end up posting it in response to some totally random post.
24/11/2009 at 03:19 invisiblejesus says:
News flash: anyone fucked up enough to beat their girlfriend/wife isn’t going to be convinced otherwise by a shitty flash game. The only people who’ll feel badly about “playing” this stupid game are already not going to do it. GG waste of taxpayer money!
25/11/2009 at 18:19 Solario says:
Yeah… You do realise it’s a privately owned organisation that’s built on charity, not government funding?
And the point about the game isn’t the game itself, it’s a campaign designed to raise awareness about domestic violence in relationships in the age 14-19 group. Which, given the fact that it’s been in the major papers, and even here, seems to have worked out pretty well.
To compare it with “No Russian” is, quite frankly, ridiculous. No Russian is a part of an entertainment media, a game, whereas this is designed to get people talking. The Interactivity of this is to get people uncomfortable and thereby talking. We’re suppose to judge all kinds of entertainment based on what they’re trying to accomplish, right?
25/11/2009 at 18:20 Solario says:
Goddammit, being able to edit would be nice. I changed the last sentence, when I wrote it, but forgot to change “entertainment” to “product”.
24/11/2009 at 03:22 FRIENDLYUNIT says:
I’m starting to suspect that some people just don’t ‘get’ how interactivity and games work.
Um… and this is a little sickening but have they done studies? Have they any evidence to suggest that people who are inclined to ‘smack their bitch up’ have, after having tried it virtually first, decided that they didn’t in fact want to when having a real argument with their girlfriend?
Because I would hope they have, to have made this stupid thing. My gut instinct is that people fall into two categories: people that would be sickened by beating on a women and people who wouldn’t and I don’t think ‘try before you buy’ is ever going to change that.
24/11/2009 at 03:52 whalleywhat says:
I heard there’s games where you full on murder people.
24/11/2009 at 03:56 A-Scale says:
Truly, this is worse than no dedicated servers in MW2. Well, almost.
24/11/2009 at 06:15 Bret says:
Let’s not go too far here.
24/11/2009 at 04:53 TeeJay says:
I am reserving judgement. This isn’t aimed at me – I am not violent, not a ‘gangsta’, nor am I a victim of violence. I don’t even know anyone who is any of these things.
If this is effective at getting an anti-violence message to certain kinds of people, and if it has been shown to be useful and effective, then it has my support.
That for me is the bottom line. How I ‘feel’ about it personally is less important. I don’t work in this area nor have I studied it. I am willing to listen to what people who work in the area of domestic violence think about this before potificating about it and passing judgement.
Anyone got any decent links to comments from people who have any expertise?
24/11/2009 at 05:28 invisiblejesus says:
I don’t, and I doubt anyone does. Anecdotally though, I work with a guy who’s hit his girlfriend before. He’d laugh at something like this. He’d think it was funny. He might even play a couple rounds for giggles.
24/11/2009 at 07:23 TeeJay says:
Some people will never be violent, others are already far too fucked up…
…then there are people who could go either way. Probably young guys aged 16 to 20.
Maybe ‘the wrong kind of people’ will be attracted to this for ‘the wrong reasons’ – but doesn’t mean you are going to be preaching to the right audience, rather than preaching to the choir?
It might make me feel sick to think that somewhere on the internet someone is getting off to this, but they can do this anyway via violent porn/xxx-rated games, the difference being that these don’t contain the message/punchline and do often involve genuine abuse.
But me feeling sick about some people getting off on it is irrelevant in the face of whether this makes a difference in reducing actual violence. If it is effective in making a difference then I should just ‘hold my nose’ and put up with my distaste as the price to pay.
(nb. I’m sure there will be soon be ‘What I Think’ articles in the Indie and Guardian by ‘experts’ followed by readers responses)
24/11/2009 at 09:11 Rinox says:
I am reserving judgement. This isn’t aimed at me – I am not violent, not a ‘gangsta’, nor am I a victim of violence. I don’t even know anyone who is any of these things.
TeeJay, I certainly hope so, but chances are pretty big that you do know someone who is either a victim or offender among your friends or family. But maybe not a gangsta, no. ;-)
UK numbers for domestic violence:
1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence at some point in their lives.
2 women a week are murdered by a current or former partner.
Over 45,000 women and children stay in a refuge each year.
UK police attend a domestic violence incident every minute of every hour of every day.
So…people may not talk about it, obviously, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Happens all the time apparently (like you I never experienced it first-hand though, thankgod).
24/11/2009 at 05:00 Jad says:
@jsutcliffe
Civilians: The Hidden Killer
24/11/2009 at 05:12 JoeX111 says:
Man, at first I thought it was Chloe from 24.
24/11/2009 at 14:19 Spod says:
And if ever there was a human being in desperate need of a slap* :)
*Said in jest, not to be taken seriously, not to be taken with food, do not operate heavy machinery.
24/11/2009 at 05:18 twb says:
Suddenly, I understand where Lars von Trier got it from. Danish cinema, will you never stop mocking me?
Next, I plan to crusade against alcoholism by drinking myself into a blinding stupor.
24/11/2009 at 05:40 Muzman says:
Was I the only one who chuckled slightly at the misguided good intention here?
It’s clearly from that school of community announcements where they just show you the horror (they had some in the UK recently about immigrant sex slaves where it’s all very in your face).
But you do something like that juuuust a little bit wrong and it becomes completely ineffective. Thinking that you make ultimedia content about it by merely taking that sort of advert and making it interactive is one such problem.
What they were going for was, I think, something like that clever execution flash game. But Fail! as they say on the ‘tubes.
24/11/2009 at 06:30 int says:
I have to be the only one who thought of the fmv game “A fork in the tale” with Rob Schneider when watching that.
24/11/2009 at 06:39 capital L says:
Shockingly, it turned out to be a PSA?
I found it rather predictably to be a PSA, but perhaps that’s due to decades of similar shock-style PSAs broadcast to us across a number of mediums in the US of A. Tedious really.
24/11/2009 at 06:44 invisiblejesus says:
After reading about/playing this “game”, I think it’s worth considering how differently it seems to treat domestic violence from other social problems. Would a majority of reasonable people think it was appropriate to make a game in which you gassed Jews, with the caveat that it was about fighting anti-semitism? Or a game where you wrapped a noose around a black or hispanic person’s neck, with the caveat that it was about fighting racism? I don’t think that most reasonable people would consider those acceptable. It’s very telling that anyone would even consider defending this ridiculous “game”, and in that way I suppose you could say it partially accomplishes it’s goal; it shows just how deeply rooted misogyny is in western culture. Too bad the kinds of people who really need to get that message are going to be too busy smacking their bitch up to understand.
24/11/2009 at 07:40 TeeJay says:
You mean games like “Raid Gaza”? http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view/476393
(goal is to kill as many Palestinians as possible in an alloted timeframe)
24/11/2009 at 07:46 TeeJay says:
…or maybe you mean something like Operation Pedopriest?
http://www.molleindustria.org/en/home
24/11/2009 at 07:23 grimman says:
I think I should point out that… I would totally hit it.
24/11/2009 at 07:24 Louis says:
‘John Walker, one of the writers on the Rock, Paper, Shotgun games blog, said: “Games really are treated in a peculiar way.”
He doubted that anyone would campaign for books to follow humanitarian laws or for James Bond to be denounced for machine gunning his way through a super villain’s underground complex.
He said the authors did not understand that gamers can distinguish between fantasy and reality.’
-BBC NEWS
24/11/2009 at 07:46 Centy says:
Unlike the No Russian thing which didn’t really effect me one way or the other this I found to be appalling. I was linked to it by a guy who either thought it was clever or was a good way to shock. Frankly it’s just made of utter well fail is the best word. I didn’t even play as when I attempted to close my browser tab I slapped her and could see exactly where it would end up.
I admire officials trying to use gaming or any new form of media to get a message across but there is a much better way of talking to young men about domestic violence than this. Having now, courtesy of that video, seen what happens at the end I don’t feel it’s strong enough to counter what it made you do to get there. All these things need a counter point and this just doesn’t have one.
24/11/2009 at 07:48 TeeJay says:
“…there is a much better way of talking to young men about domestic violence than this…”
What is the better approach?
24/11/2009 at 08:36 Nick says:
What, are you suggesting with that question that this is the best one?
24/11/2009 at 08:37 Psychopomp says:
You could always cockpunch them.
24/11/2009 at 14:24 Spod says:
“I was linked to it by a guy who either thought it was clever or was a good way to shock.”
Actually I linked it to you because I thought it was amusingly absurd. I genuinely didn’t think it would have that big an affect on you and I’m still quite surprised about that. You giant fairy.
:)
24/11/2009 at 20:03 TeeJay says:
“What, are you suggesting with that question that this is the best one?”
I’m not suggesing anything.
As I posted before “I am reserving judgement … If this is effective at getting an anti-violence message to certain kinds of people, and if it has been shown to be useful and effective, then it has my support.”
So when someone says: “…there is a much better way of talking to young men about domestic violence than this…”
I genuinely want to know what this “better approach” is.
Anyone?
24/11/2009 at 07:50 Pippin says:
I’m quite surprised to see nobody in thread (or in the article, or in the general response to this game on the internet) consider the very real possibility of not hitting the woman in the first place. There’s an odd tension or even contradiction going on:
1/ People often seem to feel that the game is sick and a terrible thing to have represented; yet
2/ People then also seem to go ahead and slap the woman around, presumably feeling that this is acceptable behaviour because it’s “just a game”.
I don’t believe it’s the intention of the game to point this out, after all it doesn’t give you any information until you’ve gone through the motions. On the other hand, I do think that it’s a potentially powerful thing to take away from a game like this. No one’s making beat this virtual woman. Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you have to. Even if there’s a meter rating you and the only interactive possibility is slapping and the game is called “Hit the Bitch”. Are we honestly so under the sway of the ‘interactive imperative’ that we can’t even consider not interacting?
When I saw the game and the set up, I had no desire at all to hit her, I thought it was a deeply unpleasant thing to do. So I didn’t. I’d assumed that other people would generally feel the same way, rather than diving into it so whole heartedly, and I’m quite disappointed to find out how wrong I apparently am.
24/11/2009 at 13:58 JB says:
Pippin, I think you missed this post a few up from yours:
Centy says:
I didn’t even play as when I attempted to close my browser tab I slapped her and could see exactly where it would end up.
So there’s at least one person who has posted. Personally I wouldn’t have clicked either, but I didn’t visit the site.
24/11/2009 at 20:11 TeeJay says:
I don’t see why you assume that people “go ahead and slap the woman around”.
Like you I have no desire to ‘play this game’ (or ‘interact with this advert’ – it isn’t really a game). There are plenty of games that I have chosen not to play or stopped playing due to disliking the content.
You say you are “quite disappointed to find out how wrong I apparently am” – I can’t see how you have ‘found out’ you are wrong. Personally I assume that most people here simply watched the youtube video and by the time most people found out about it the site had been blocked.
24/11/2009 at 08:45 Tull. says:
Meh.
24/11/2009 at 08:51 sana says:
A game about an actress acting like she’s hit in the face. Shocking.
I suggest a 200+ comments thread about the terror of gibbing women in Unreal Tournament 3 next.
24/11/2009 at 09:03 DJ Phantoon says:
Because that’s the exact same thing, right Sana?
24/11/2009 at 09:05 Pippin says:
Sana, I think that’s an interesting and understandable response.
Say there’s no difference between blowing away a woman in Unreal and slapping a woman around in a Flash game. Why is that? Is it because they’re both “just a game” and thus have no moral/ethical content whatsoever?
Can you imagine a game that would make you not want to play because it made you too ethically uncomfortable? I mean, I think it’s possible to imagine a combination of realism, detail, and awfulness that would lead to a game that I wouldn’t want to play – specifically because it reaches my ethical breaking point.
What’s the difference between that game and Unreal or “Hit the Bitch”? Or is there no possible game you wouldn’t be ethically comfortable playing?
It’s just such a weird situation, I think. There are games I can imagine that I wouldn’t want to play for basically ethical reasons, and I yet I’m not sure I can point out what the difference is.
24/11/2009 at 10:15 sana says:
Interesting point, Pippin. I’m really having a hard time imagining a game non-ethical enough to not be worth playing merely because of the moral aspect. If I didn’t want to play a game, it would be because it’s bad. Games entirely consisting of blowing up baby kittens and doing vile things to women would be repetitive, thus bad. Morals are a secondary thing in fiction, like gameplay and graphics would make a game worth playing regardless of immoral actions taken by characters in the plot. However no developer would dedicate enough resources to make a game with totally un-ethical content worth playing (everyone would feel too uncomfortable to buy it, hence no profit)…
That being said, it’s still pretty laughable that gamers who have no problem with BLOWING PEOPLE THE FUCK UP in fictional context get their panties twisted over the _intended reaction_ of an equally fictional anti-violence campaign game. Are these people offended because the game is so horridly made or is hypocrisy at work here?
24/11/2009 at 11:51 Rinox says:
One is a videotape of an actress…other is a game with 3D graphics. The moment where 3D graphics are as convincing as a real human face/acting is still waaaay off. That’s the main difference between both.
Also, this video is about domestic violence, which is a real issue and close to each of us. Unreal Tournament and other shooters aren’t exactly the pinnacle of realistic and relatable games for most of us. Games like UT3 and TF2 are so ridiculously over the top with gibbage that they don’t even qualify as ‘shocking’.
24/11/2009 at 13:53 fulis says:
It’s the same difference as watching a cartoon vs watching footage of real violence
24/11/2009 at 14:05 sana says:
So you’re basically saying they recorded live footage of the titular “bitch” being punched in the face for that game, yes?
It’s just as fictional as any 3D slaughter, and it’d be a stretch to say that violence depicted in a live act is that much more influental than violence depicted in a 3D animation BASED on live acting…
24/11/2009 at 14:10 sana says:
Also, I can’t really disagree much with Rinox, however I’d like to add that I don’t see anybody being affected by death in more realistic games such as Insurgency. The shooter in question being over-the-top is of little relevance. Yet some sloppily done act of domestic abuse is more likely to be called un-ethical and inadequate than an Iraq war simulation. Why? Perhaps I am the only one not being extraordinarily affected by the fact that the actress in question is a real person?
24/11/2009 at 20:33 TeeJay says:
Many people would find a cartoon depicting the same interaction disgusting / upsetting / morally repulsive as well.
24/11/2009 at 09:04 Heliocentric says:
La la la la. I can’t hear you, pc gaming is flowers and kittens.
*fingers in ears*
24/11/2009 at 09:20 Frankie The Patrician[PF] says:
*plays No Russian before his eyes*
24/11/2009 at 09:13 Tull. says:
I’m very much with Sana on this one.
24/11/2009 at 09:20 Masked Dave says:
Closing the browser and NOT HITTING THE WOMAN is an action. That’s how you refuse. If you continue through to the end wondering when the violence will stop, aren’t you kind of missing the point?
24/11/2009 at 09:24 Vinraith says:
“Closing the browser and NOT HITTING THE WOMAN is an action.”
But it’s not an action in the game. If you want to know anything about the game, you have to play the game, and the only way to play the game is to hit the woman.
24/11/2009 at 10:12 Pippin says:
As a couple of people have started pointing out, “not acting sort of is an action”. It’s not an “action” in the game in the sense that you click a button to “not act”, no. But we don’t suddenly cease to exist in reality as soon as we decide we’re playing a game, our not acting in the real world (not clicking etc) is tantamount to the “action” of not acting in the game.
And actually, not acting is, effectively, an action in the game, so to speak. You can sit there waving the hand (gently) around and have nothing happen. There’s nothing in the game that makes you do anything. This argument from the ‘interactive imperative’ is currently just not looking strong to me… I’d be interested in anyone arguing for it, though.
24/11/2009 at 11:31 Azazel says:
I say we get proper existential on this mofo.
24/11/2009 at 20:36 TeeJay says:
“If you want to know anything about the game, you have to play the game”
Or watch a youtube video of it. Or read a review of it by a video game critic. or… etc … etc.
24/11/2009 at 21:01 Vinraith says:
@TeeJay
At which point you’re either watching some one else play the game, or reading about someone else playing the game. Someone still had to play the game, someone still had to hit the woman, and by reading or viewing anything related to the playing of the game you’re endorsing that.
26/11/2009 at 13:36 Masked Dave says:
That’s nonsense. You already know about the game, its pretty obvious what it’s asking you to do. You have to decide if you can bring yourself to do it or not. And if you do, well then you see the consequences of your actions. Showing you basically that ‘beating women isn’t fun’.
24/11/2009 at 09:44 Bad Gangsta says:
Isn’t this a lot like the controversial sniper game released last year (I think). The one where you saw this prisoner through a rifle scope, and the only possible action was to shoot the guy? Only that one actually congratulates you for quitting the game instead. I believe the general message was “the only way to win is to not play the game” or something.
24/11/2009 at 10:01 Rostock says:
That’s a cool idea.
24/11/2009 at 09:51 Optimaximal says:
She looks like Chloe from 24 – IT ALL MAKES SENSE!!!
24/11/2009 at 10:15 Martin says:
It’s actually easier to understand if you do understand danish..
being a dane my self, I’m not wondering about the game, more that the morons making it didn’t make it on english to prevent misunderstanding across the countries..
otherwise it would make more sence to make the URL in danish so instead of hit the bitch it should be slå kællingen or tæv kællingen
feel free to ask for a translation.
24/11/2009 at 10:21 Janka says:
My impression is (though I, to be honest, am too lazy to check) that there is evidence in plenty for desensitization to violence in the form of seeing it in TV, games, and real life making people more likely to use it, while no evidence whatsoever to same leading to less violence. If seeing the horrible effects of violence will tend to cure people from it, why is having seen abuse considered a predisposing factor to becoming an abuser?
24/11/2009 at 10:51 kyrieee says:
She doesn’t say “fuck that” she says “fuck you”
24/11/2009 at 10:54 fulis says:
lol I just laughed when I heard the dialogue, I can’t take it seriously
The guy says something like “What’s wrong with you? You don’t have the bitch under control!” (I’m not Danish so it might not be 100%, but it’s sounds funny lol)
24/11/2009 at 11:11 Chaz says:
> Do you want to fire torpedoes at the Belgrano?
> NO
> Well done, you sank the Belgrano!
24/11/2009 at 14:09 RobF says:
Brilliant :D
24/11/2009 at 11:11 N says:
“Shh… there, there…. KAPOW!”
I lol’d.
24/11/2009 at 11:27 Nemon says:
Anyone know a good combo to finish her MK-style?
24/11/2009 at 12:49 DMJ says:
I feel uncomfortable watching TV shows in which a man hits a woman. But this is not a woman. It’s a woman-shaped punching bag on a computer. Its only purpose is to be hit. Should the “player” feel guilty? Or the ones who made the punching-bag in the first place?
If this was released as a commercial game, there would be outcry and BAN THIS SICK FILTH NOW. Should we, as gamers, get offended when a government sinks to lower depths than Grand Theft Auto? First they brand our medium as “childish”. Then “pornographic”. Then they outdo the “pornographers”.
24/11/2009 at 13:17 KindredPhantom says:
Whose for retconing the whole month of November?
24/11/2009 at 13:52 klumhru says:
Where is the “put your arm over her shoulder and take her home” button? Leaving violence as the only *active* option makes this “game” pointless.
24/11/2009 at 14:16 BinhoF says:
Um, has anyone ever stopped to ask whether games are even a good place to force in moral dilemmas?
Yes, they do lend you a greater level of interactivity, and theoretically giving you the choice should be quite powerful…but even now, there are no consequences, and there is no character growth beyond simple statistics.
For example, in an RPG like Dragon Age,The Witcher or Mass Effect, you are forced to make nasty choices (Kill the innocent kid or sacrifice his mother? Kill the innocent witch or an entire village?) but these in no way help you grow, or change the way you/your character reacts to future situations.
My gruff, manly dwarf, is still going to be a gruff manly dwarf after I *spoliers* kill the possesed kid at Redcliffe Castle */spoilers*, he won’t ever suffer from post traumatic stress disorder from fighting legions of undead and demons, he won’t go into an exisitential crisis from killing a group of soldiers.
This is a major part of literature, cinema and theater though, the whole idea of a character arc – and games lack this notably. Considering in a game you are always striving for improvement and for ultimate victory, is there anyway a proper character arc could be added?
More importantly, should it? Games should also be fun. What are the limits for using games to convey messages or dilemmas? Does the need for gameplay dilute this?
24/11/2009 at 16:54 SheffieldSteel says:
The character might not suffer posst traumatic stress disorder. I think what matters is how the player reacts afterwards.
24/11/2009 at 20:54 TeeJay says:
This isn’t really/genuinely a game – it’s an interactive advert.
24/11/2009 at 15:18 Spod says:
Thinking about it, it strikes me that this comes down to ones ability to process this “game” in to something real in ones mind. I found myself thinking about the invention of cinema and that (apparently – could be rubbish) people would dash to get out of the way of an oncoming train because they didn’t realise it wasn’t real.
If you’re appalled/shocked by this game then you’re clearly associating something very real with it, those of us who are not are almost certainly just seeing a silly animation with a actress and a script. It’s impossible to feel anything for it if you can’t disconnect from the reality of the situation – no one got hurt, this is not abuse that we’re seeing. I’d be amazed if anyone who’s posting here would be equally nonchalant when faced with genuine abuse.
24/11/2009 at 15:27 sana says:
Very nice post. :)
24/11/2009 at 15:38 Gutter says:
And you’d be right.
If this site was a webcam with a woman getting beaten for real, no one would act nonchalantly, but it’s not.
Now, the maker of that site also included a “gansta’” theme. Their goal wasn’t to make people play until they got the abuse out of their system, or even just to have them play a “realistic” game, but to ridicule abusers, showing them how much respect society has for them.
They probably didn’t succeed in that either.
24/11/2009 at 15:47 vash47 says:
Nice game.
24/11/2009 at 15:51 nezor says:
If it was a man no one would say anything. Pathetic.
24/11/2009 at 16:56 The Unbelievable Guy says:
Respect for women, you say? It’s political correctness gone MAD!
24/11/2009 at 20:58 TeeJay says:
I’d say something.
24/11/2009 at 16:00 Jimbo says:
Total Black & White rip off.
24/11/2009 at 16:55 jalf says:
I’m not sure I see what the fuss is about. It works, doesn’t it? It’s getting people all over the world to sit up and pay attention, and loudly proclaim how evil domestic violence is.
It’s also cheesy as hell and has bad voice acting, but they’re getting their message out.
24/11/2009 at 17:17 oddshrub says:
I find it widely amusing that while being Danish, having read two news papers and watched two news casts this is the first time I hear about this.
The translations are wrong though.
24/11/2009 at 17:37 Heliocentric says:
When i read the translation of what she said i was so angry at her i closed down the game booted up defcon and nuked denmark so hard it would glow for the next 5000 years.
Bitch deserved it.
24/11/2009 at 18:04 Railick says:
LMAO @ Heliocentric
I thought she was rather pretty. At first the slapping didn’t bother me but as it got more graphic it was most displeasing to watch. Still I don’t think a game can accurately portray the rage that over takes some guys leading to them beating their wife. It isn’t always a choice for some guys and rather is a mental problem that needs to be treated medically and with therapy ect. Some guys really love their wife/girl friend ect but for whatever reason when something triggers them they beat the crap out of them and then afterwards feel really guilty and depressed about it and say they’ll never do it again but of course, next time they snap it happens all over again. Yes the woman gets the short end of the stick (or whatever he’s using to hit her) and should probably get the heck out of that relationship at least until the guy has went to a doctor for some help with his rage issues ect.
24/11/2009 at 21:00 TeeJay says:
“at least until the guy has went to a doctor”
or prison
24/11/2009 at 18:06 Joshua says:
A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.
24/11/2009 at 19:04 Railick says:
Much like Nuclear War! Was this game on the list of games to play in War Games ? :P
24/11/2009 at 19:47 Chrillen says:
People who play the game and complain about violence being the only option don’t get it.
You’re supposed to quit the game and not hurt the woman.
Like the experimental game “Exectuion”, from last year:
http://gmc.yoyogames.com/index.php?showtopic=375097
I didn’t notice people complaining about the only option of that game is to execute the person (you’re really just supposed to quit without doing anything), but I guess people are just too used to killing people in video games to actually care, as opposed to beating women.
24/11/2009 at 20:19 Erica says:
Chrillen: funny you mention that, I always thought the same about Half Life….
24/11/2009 at 21:02 TeeJay says:
There are numerically more videogames that I have decided *not* to play than vice-versa.
25/11/2009 at 04:52 timos says:
Here is translation:
She is saying: “I can decide who I want to dance with”, “No I did not fuck your best friend – he is just as ugly as you are”, “You are a disgusting little man”, “do you feel strong now”, “is that all you have”, “if you really loved me you would not force me to do things I dont like”. Then at the end the guy says “You Idiot – it is not gangsta to hit women – there is no excuse for violence against women”. And then it says that two girls in every classroom from 9th grade up live in a violent relationship and has info for help line.
25/11/2009 at 23:02 Snuffy (the Evil) says:
I laughed at the subtitles. Should I feel guilty?
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