Read and commented on that way back in the previous epic thread. Any plot-holes I saw in the ending were easily explained away in my head. Thematically it was odd in that it focussed entirely on one of many themes of the games, but at least that beats the Dark Energy idea some people seem to like which addresses none of them.
I'm not assuming that. All the arguments you make in your post are the exact reasons you can't say "everyone hated it" any more than I can say "everyone not posting on message boards loved it".
On a general feel based on what people talk about in forums. In threads like "What class will you play?" or "Male or Female Shepard?" - Though here's a random poll I Googled after the fact
http://biowarefanclub.deviantart.com.../poll/2520994/ My point is simply that you can't extrapolate 90% of people on forums hate the ending therefore 90% of all people hate the ending. Because they're a self-selecting group that provably bear no relation to the total population.
Nor am I saying that everyone not posting on message boards hated it. My friends were split around 50-50 to be honest, none of them being on forums. Anecdotal, doesn't mean anything. Yes, the evidence we have from forums is the best we can get, and the best we're ever going to get (though expect to see a "Did you like the ending? Y/N" button in future Bioware games :) ) - so on the best evidence available, you guys are totally right. The problem is, the best evidence is shit. And we know that because we do have evidence on how differently Bioware 'fans' and dedicated forum-gamers react to the game compared to the total market.
But you enjoyed the preceding 100 hours of gaming right? The only thing that the ending impacts on is the last five minutes, and what you'll get out of it when re-playing it.
And again, outside of our dedicated gamer communities, the vast majority of people won't play the game more than once so for them it isn't really relevant. The ending doesn't retroactively make the time you spent on all three games leading up to it no longer fun. So sure, you mark it down for a bad ending damaging the replay value if you really want to.